User blog comment:Misstditylerfan/Newsletter is Officially Returning!/@comment-3220924-20111127021238/@comment-3220924-20111127022353

''I have been best friends with my friend since pre-school and we have always done everything together! However, last month she stopped calling me and we haven't been hanging out as much. I wondered why this was happening so I asked another one of her friends if she had been mad at me or something. Her friend told me that my best friend was jealous since I liked the same guy as her - but I didn't! That means she was spreading rumors by telling everyone I liked him even though I didn't! Should I ask her to stop or just let her get away with it to avoid awkwardness and losing our friendship? What should I do? Please help!''

-Anonymous

''Well, it seems that your friend isn't a very good one! You see, if you don't confront your friend about it, she's just going to continue the rumors, and probably ruin your friendship and reputation. It's amazing to see what one person can do. When you confront her, don't act angry, as that will worsen it. Try to be calm and see why she is doing this. It could be that someone told her you liked him, causing her to get jealous, causing this whole ordeal. Try to confirm you don't like the guy, and ask her if she could stop spreading rumors. Even though it's hard, sometimes a confrontation is the best choice.''

-OHF